Think about what you need in life to feel better or do better. Spend quiet time alone each day-without interruption. Not only that, you aren't a victim - you're in control, so take it. Victimizing yourself isn't attractive to healthy people. Disengage from a need to be pitied.Īre you telling yourself or others stories about being taken advantage of trying to generate sympathy? Stop. People stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics - including me when I was - are stuck in denial and rationalization. Those who keep you guessing about how they feel about you don't feed your soul - they deplete it. Choose people who know that trust is earned and that once broken, can be impossible to get back. Be with those who are loving, respectful, honest, and open.
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